Sunday, June 12, 2011

Party Tym.. Slideshow

Party Tym.. Slideshow: "TripAdvisor™ TripWow ★ Party Tym.. Slideshow ★ to pagadian (near Dipolog). Stunning free travel slideshows on TripAdvisor"

Monday, March 7, 2011

The Journey of Our Relationships


I really need some air and space to think things over. Last night when my “mine” told me that he is about to leave for abroad, I was really shocked. He told me straight to my face. At first, I really don’t mind it all because I assured myself that he can’t do such thing, but later on as we went home, he seriously said it all over again.

He told me that it is for our own good, that he wanted all the best for us. Who asked him anyway? I decided not to talk. I gave him enough time to tell me why he should leave me if he can’t afford to see me alone.. The moment we got home, he told me to face him. I did, I’ve seen how serious he was that time. That was the time that my tears fall. I really can’t help it. It was like raindrops keep falling. I can’t even stop it. He said that why should I cry? Why we should cry? As I look back at him, I saw him crying too. We both were crying. He said “this is not easy for me, but this is the only way that I can do for our future. Please understand, I don’t want you to regret later on because you married a guy jobless”. I answered: “You know that I don’t like long distance relationship, if you will leave me, can I ask my freedom?” Even if it hurts me a lot, I took courage to say those lines.. He then hugs me tight, and said: “I am doing this not only for myself, but for you also. I want you to proudly say that “that’s him, my life”. I want you to be proud of me..

Maybe we should give ourselves space and time to think it. I really don’t want him to go, but if it is God’s will, be it!

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

Myself


There are times that all you can do is to accept the fact that there will be no other person who will stay in your life in times of ups and downs. It is only yourself who will not leave and stay with you even others are not. If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, all you have to do is to accept for what and who you are. Only this way you can learn to love it.
Loving someone is not really a crime, but loving that person too much is not good. Now, if you love someone right now or committed into someone, you have to give yourself a reservation. Do not give your all. Once he left you, you can stand up and tell the world that it is not your lost, but his/her.


Love yourself more than others. This is the only being who will not leave you despite what other people may think or say.. Say this always: "I love myself!"...